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The Girlfriend Experience – Enjoy The Perfect GFE

the girlfriend experienceTired of not getting the Girlfriend Experience you deserve?

As a male, you pretty much have the keys to the western world in your back pocket. Hell, as a male you pretty much have the keys to the entire planet, should you choose to use them. I’m sure a great many of my fellow women are lining up right now to give me a few solid whacks on the head, so I’d like to balance out that less than politically correct truth by saying that as men you also have your fair share of sexism to deal with.

For example, who decided that because you are ‘guys’ you should be comfortable peeing next to each other in public? Who decided that showing emotion was unmanly? Perhaps most importantly, who decided that you guys didn’t need romance and affection to be happy?

Nowhere is gender politics cloudier than when it comes to sex. Those dastardly gender roles are still sitting proudly on their thrones, ensuring that all women want a cuddle after sex (not true) and that all men just want to roll over and go to sleep (also not true).  Men are expected to be animalistic – to crave it like beasts and to look at the whole process of sex as an emotionless, self-satisfying venture.

Unfortunately, large parts of the adult entertainment industry and even the sex trade are geared toward this myth. This leaves many men who actually respond emotionally as well as physically to sex distinctly unsatisfied.

Where do sensitive, intelligent guys go for a good time?

If you’ve ever hired an escort for an evening, this ‘cut and dry’ attitude is brought into the spotlight.  In general, the providers you hire have strict rules against anything even remotely resembling emotional response. Sex is treated as a service no more intimate than a dental exam.

What if you’re one of the growing number of successful men who use escorts and need a sense of intimacy to truly enjoy sex?  What if you actually need to kiss…hell, want to kiss in order to feel aroused. What if you want a back rub, to hold hands, to sit on the couch and make out like a teenager? Is that so wrong?

Welcome to the Girlfriend Experience (GFE)

More and more, successful men who don’t have the time or energy in their daily lives to pursue actual relationships are looking for escorts who excel in what is known in the industry as a GFE. Unlike traditional interactions where sex and money is exchanged with equal detachment, escorts who excel at GFE will give their clients a real relationship experience for the time that they are hired for.

What does this mean? Think of all the good parts of being in a relationship and then take away the commitment, the silly fights and the need to take her home to meet your parents. Women who provide this service to their clients will take the time to get to know them, have full conversations, hold hands, kiss (with tongue!), cuddle and even spend the night. For men who respond better to intimacy and affection, finding an escort who excels at the Girlfriend Experience is like stumbling across the Holy Grail.

Getting the most out of your GFE

One of the best things about a girlfriend experience is the fact that both provider and client enjoy the interaction much more. Professional escorts with a roster of clients who ask for this brand of experience rate their level of job satisfaction much higher than those who provide traditional, interactions. They are treated with respect, they are listened to and they are showered with the kind of attention that both men and women crave from each other.

Although any professional who excels at GFE will know what to do to ‘set the tone’, there are things that you can do to enhance your experience as well.  Like any woman, she will respond to you much better if you take the time to ask her questions about herself and really listen to her responses.  Yes she is a paid professional, but she is human and wants to be heard.

Along the same lines, you should consider giving her a gift or two the more time you spend with her.  This doesn’t mean picking up some flowers at a local gas station either. When you actually get to know her, choose a thoughtful gift that relates to her interests and one that will impress a woman who makes the kind of substantial income she no doubt does.

Unlike most escort/ client interactions, the girlfriend experience generally includes deep French kissing, oral sex for men and women as well as intercourse and even anal depending on the provider. When it comes to kissing – let her lead the way.  Kissing is a touchy area for escorts and being the gentleman you are by allowing her to take the upper hand will be greatly appreciated.

The same goes for oral. Some providers include BBBJ (bare back blow jobs i.e./unprotected oral) as part of the girl friend experience but don’t assume this is the case with your chosen companion.  Always be prepared and as previously mentioned…let her lead.  Allowing her to gain confidence and trust in you will truly bring out the ‘girlfriend’ in her and make for a much more satisfying experience for both of you.

Once you’ve found the perfect girlfriend experience, it can grow into a beautiful arrangement. Why not invite her on a resort weekend? Whisk her away for a tropical holiday? Yes, you’ll be paying for her company but one of the most marvelous things about it is that when you part ways, there are no complications to drag either of you down. You owe each other nothing but respect and mutual enjoyment when you are together.

It is truly the ideal situation for any busy man with no desire for commitment, but the basic human need for companionship. Just like your chosen escort is not an inhuman sex robot, you are not some kind of heartless 1950’s stereotype. In the same way that she deserves respect, you deserve to have your needs met in a way that doesn’t make you feel like you don’t warrant real human interaction.

If you are the girlfriend experience kind of guy, there is an entire world of fulfillment waiting for you.  Just grab an expensive bouquet of flowers, put your listening ears on and get out there!

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About Adley S.

I'm an avid reader and photographer with a tendency to color outside the lines. You may find me in a bookstore, a museum, or jumping out of an airplane (preferably naked) . I'm into lifestyle activities, adventure sports and almost anything to do with being outside in nature.