Do Escorts Have Orgasms With Their Clients?

Escort having an orgasmOf course all men would love to believe they rock the world of every escort they have a sexual encounter with; the truth however is not so simple.

After all, escorts are women and as a woman I can tell you that I don’t always orgasm with every man I’m with. There are also other factors involved when you’re having a sexual encounter with an escort versus someone you’re having a one night stand, or a relationship with.

There are basically two schools of thought here. Some escorts do not want to orgasm with a client and others would love to orgasm every time they have sex, whether it’s with a client, or anyone else for that matter.

As women, whether you’re an escort or not, we have a lot going on with our bodies and our ability to achieve orgasm. We are complex creatures.

It’s a myth that all “normal” women reach orgasm through intercourse. According to SOCG.org only about a third of women experience orgasm regularly during intercourse. Another third can reach orgasm with intercourse but need some extra stimulation. And finally, a third never achieve orgasm during intercourse but can by manual and oral stimulation only.

And then throw into the mix that even if you can reach orgasm you also have to have a partner that knows what they are doing and has the ability to adapt and read your body signals. Some men think that what works for one woman will work for every woman and obviously that’s just not going to cut it.

So let’s assume you are not just an average man. Let’s assume you are very in tune with each woman you’re with in bed and know how to get under the hood (pun intended) of a girls inner most desires. You can bring the “thunder from down under” so to speak.

If you do your magic with an escort she is bound to love your stamina and melt under your prowess right? Not so fast! What if she doesn’t want to orgasm? I can hear you saying, “What woman wouldn’t want to orgasm?”

As I previously mentioned, there tends to be two schools of thought when it comes to professional sex workers. One of those thoughts is they do not want to orgasm with a client for various reasons.

One of the biggest reasons is they feel if they don’t orgasm there is no connection, there is no real feeling and it’s a pure business transaction. They don’t want to mix business and pleasure. Just like some working girls will not kiss clients, some also refuse to orgasm. And as you can imagine, if a woman shuts her brain off to the idea of achieving an orgasm, all the king’s horses and all the kings men won’t make it happen.

I’m not going to get into every aspect of why an escort may not what to achieve an orgasm as it’s about as complex as women in general, but I will say that if you’re a client who finds it important to have a much more girlfriend like experience there are things you can ask and look for when choosing an escort.

Of course any woman worth her G-string can fake an orgasm but let’s focus on the escort who doesn’t want to fake anything. She actually enjoys being with certain clients and would love nothing more than to achieve mind blowing orgasms with them.

These are the girls you’re interested in because you find the sex and overall experience so much more pleasing. So how do you make sure this is the type of girl you’re with?

Step one; make sure you are the ideal client for her. Look at yourself first and how you behave with her. Escorts are women and a woman who is going to feel comfortable enough with you to achieve an orgasm is going to need to like you. Sounds simple but you would be surprised how many men act like jerks to an escort (or women in general) and then don’t understand why they are not having the experience they envisioned.

Step two; treat her with respect, open doors, make her laugh, treat her like a lady and someone who you desire. It’s really no different than any other woman you want to get to know much better and have like you. The fact you’re paying for her time should in no way diminish your willingness to treat her like a goddess.

The other very important part of this equation is choosing the right type of escort in the first place. Look for women who say they provide a girlfriend experience (GFE), they enjoy kissing a client and spending time with them doing things outside the bedroom as well. These tend to be the type of girls you’re going to have a much better chance of having some kind of connection with. It’s not a guarantee but it’s a good place to start.

Of course you still have to create that connection with her and treat her like she is special. After all, just because you’re paying for her time doesn’t mean she is not providing something very special to you in return. It’s not about trying to make her fall for you; it’s about making her enjoy your time together. She should look forward to seeing such an amazing client who treats her like a true gentleman and makes her feel like a million bucks. What woman doesn’t like to feel like that?

And let me tell you, when a woman feels like that, she is on the right track for a mind blowing orgasm. A woman’s mind is driven by emotion and when those emotions are pleasurable then her vagina quickly follows. Or at least mine does 😉

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I'm an avid reader and photographer with a tendency to color outside the lines. You may find me in a bookstore, a museum, or jumping out of an airplane (preferably naked) . I'm into lifestyle activities, adventure sports and almost anything to do with being outside in nature.