So you're ready to explore your kinky side?

You don’t have to be 50 shades of anything to know that, at some point in your life, you might have developed a fetish or kink in the bedroom. What most people don’t really know is how to best explore this aspect of their own sexuality.

People who embrace their kinky side are often met with speculation and are seen as outsiders. Words like “freak” and “deviant” make their way into conversations about other people’s sexual preferences. Let’s face it, there are plenty of people out there who might pass judgement about you.

This article is not for those people. I understand that one of the greatest aspects about truly living your life is having new experiences.

If you really wanted to jump out of an airplane or engage in some other sort of thrill-seeking activity, would you be viewed as a deviant? The short answer is no. You might be seen as eccentric or a daredevil but never as an outcast to society. [Read more...]