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How To Write An Irresistible Swinger Profile

Swinger Profile PhotoAre you looking to improve your swinger profile so you attract quality lifestyle playmates?

When was the last time you had to look in the classified section to buy something?

Was your sense of intrigue stimulated by the words used by the author, or did it seem uninspiring? You might have even found yourself turned off by the lack of creativity or details provided within the ad itself.

The devil is in the details, as the saying goes, and you’re much more apt to go look at that designer Gucci purse than just any old black leather purse, if you catch my drift.

When you sit down to write your swinger profile, make sure that you don’t skimp on the details. Be creative and fun. What is the end result you are hoping for anyway? Are you looking to spend endless hours searching the web with no real prospects, or are you looking for that orgasmically satisfying experience which is probably the main reason you're part of the lifestyle to begin with.

I’ve spent plenty of nights with individuals and couples who I wouldn’t have had the chance to play with had I not put myself online. Let me tell you, it’s been well worth the effort.  I’ve met a lot of very fun and adventurous people using the internet, so let me help you create an irresistible swinger profile.

There are a few things to consider before you decide to create your swinger profile, mainly how do you best want to present yourself to potential playmates online.

I would say I’m an attractive and sexually adventurous woman, but I was having trouble finding “quality” play partners that fit what I was really looking for when I first put my profile online. I thought that a few sexy photos and saying how much I liked sex would be more than enough. Let me tell you, swingers, more than any other group of people, are used to sexy photos and people who enjoy sex so you better have more to offer and be able to express it.

It was a bit of a blow to my ego, truth be told, to experience minimal or wacky contact and even some polite rejection. However, it really caused me to take a critical look at my swinger profile and make some necessary changes.

For example, I love other women. I love touching them, kissing them, and feeling their soft bodies respond to my every touch. With men, it’s a little different. I’m much more picky, and I prefer my contact to be primarily with the woman during play. I wasn’t upfront with this at first and I had my share of disappointed couples who were looking for more than I wanted to offer, or a different sexually adventurous experience altogether. All this is now easily avoided with my updated swinger profile.

So, I’m sure that you can’t wait to hear my suggestions and start attracting the type of people you really want for some great adult themed fun.

1. Your Username
For many people, especially the ones new to the lifestyle, they think they need to advertise their body parts to get attention. So, MrFootlong69, has pretty much advertised what he has to offer, but has he really done anything to entice a partner?

The best username for you is one that reveals a little bit about you and how you enjoy your playtime.  Avoid a lot of unnecessary abbreviations and acronyms, and definitely don’t use your real name. It usually takes people in the lifestyle a little while to really get to know someone’s “real name”, so keep it off your swinger profile.

2. Use Real Pictures
These are swingers. They want to see a real person that they can touch, feel, taste, and enjoy. When I first started, I felt like I needed to hire a professional photographer so I would look like I just stepped off the pages of a magazine.
This isn’t necessary.

You can get pretty creative with your own photos that show the real you. It’s ok to use a few filters here and there, but make sure your pictures will look how you will look when you actually meet face to face. Nobody wants to have to deal with the embarrassment of being rejected because of unrealistic photos.

3. Details are Important
Every online swinger profile has a section where you get the opportunity to tell potential playmates all about you. Be honest and forthcoming with this part of your profile. Make sure that you state what exactly you are looking for and what you hope to get out of an encounter.

Most swingers will look at your profile picture and immediately go to the “essay” section of the profile to see if you might be compatible. Really take your time on this part. Be honest with yourself about what you want out of your time with another person or couple. This is also a great opportunity to be upfront about what you will and won’t do.

For example, I now make it very clear that I’m more interested in playing with women than men, but that I am open to it with the right individuals / couples. I’ve had several generous couples where the man left me quivering in ecstasy. However, I’m upfront on my swinger profile that I’m game only for someone special.

4. Stay Positive
It can be very easy when creating your swinger profile to talk about all the things you don’t want. It’s ok to be honest with what you don’t want, but you definitely do not want to come across as negative.

Instead of saying that you’re not interested in couples who jump right into bed, make a point to say the type of couple you’d like to meet. “I’m interested in meeting a couple who appreciates a relaxing fire, good conversation, and a nice bottle of wine before exploring our sexual desires together.” Or rather then saying you don't like couples who are the "stay at home type", try something more like this. "I would love to meet a couple who enjoys adult travel and exploring some of the unique lifestyle resorts out there."

This is a strong and positive way to say that you’re looking for an experience, and not just a naked one.

Don’t be afraid to use some humor and show your fun side a bit more. You’re trying to convey your personality and how you do that with words and photos makes all the difference. You need to do a bit more then just show close-up photos of big breasts or a big dick and a few lines in your profile if you want to attract quality playmates.

Your swinger profile is something that can bring you an immense amount of joy in the future, so don’t throw just anything up there. Take your time and I promise it will be well worth the effort.
 

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About Kristine L.

I’m into travel, video games and have been called a nerd on more than one occasion. My passionate writer self loves dreaming of far off places waiting to be discovered. Someday I hope to travel to every country on earth. In the meantime, I’m happy at a local pub writing my next article ;)