Planning Your First Sex Vacation? Read This First!

Girls on sex vacationYour guide to the perfect sex vacation starts here. If you stopped the average Joe on the street and asked them to describe their perfect get away, you can be guaranteed it would include a whole list of clichés.

Beaches, swim up bars, pool side service, maybe even a visit from a famous cartoon character or two – these are truly the ingredients that constitute the average holiday.

What if you’re not the average person? What if, like a growing number of people worldwide, when you plan a getaway you’re looking for a little more than a monorail ride and a tacky souvenir?

Maybe you're looking for the adult adventure provided from a sex vacation.

A Sex Vacation Is For The Sexually Adventurous

It’s no secret that vacation sex is highly enjoyable. Something about being far removed from your everyday life and all of its stresses tends to make our appetites for sex grow and our inhibitions shrink.

For these reasons, sexual tourism and the "sex vacation" is quickly becoming more and more accepted in the mainstream as a legitimate travel experience. It’s a booming industry all across the globe from Slovakia to Asia to Africa and then back again.

The people have decided – there’s plenty of things much better to get by the pool than a tacky drink with an umbrella in it!

If you are getting ready to plan your first sex vacation, there are quite a few considerations that you must take into account before you jump on an airplane.

Although it’s a massive industry that millions of tourists avail themselves to every year, you need to be sure that you get the most out of your trip and come back not only in one piece, but packed full of exciting sexy memories.

Girl enjoying sex vacation on the beachChoosing Your Spot For The Perfect Sex Vacation

Deciding where to travel for a sex vacation is a similar process to deciding where you’d go for any vacation. You need to take your style and comfort level into account.

There are those who want to immerse themselves in the local culture and there are those who would rather enjoy pure escapism, surrounded by only the most beautiful the area has to offer. Which one are you?

The Down and Dirty to the Ultimate Sex Vacation

If you’re the backpacking type and love to ‘go local’, you may be satisfied with ‘club crawls’ throughout your chosen country.  Many bar girls and boys are waiting for your patronage worldwide, you simply need to find the venue suited to your style of enjoyment in a sex vacation.

With the hundreds of adult clubs catering to sex tourists in these countries, it is prudent to take a peek at the many websites online before writing up your itinerary.

You can also find many private listings for professional providers operating independently complete with photos and contact numbers. On some sites men and women with similar appetites share their experiences freely, even recommending providers or in some cases, warning other clients away.

It’s an excellent way to ensure that you don’t waste your valuable time and money while you’re off on the sex vacation of your dreams.

Prefer the ‘James Bond’ Style of Sex Vacation?

If the ‘loose and free’ style of travel causes you more stress than enjoyment, you may be the perfect candidate for what is known as escort resort or escort sex vacation.

Much safer and far more luxurious than independent exploring, these resorts and private retreats are designed to give their patrons a full taste of adult paradise. Once you’ve arrived, you have your choice of willing escorts to hire to spend time with you during your stay.

These adult resorts are generally situated in areas of great natural beauty and some can include all the amenities you’d expect from any top of the line all inclusive resort in the area.

Make sure you compare what is offered as that can be the big difference in price. Not all escort resorts or sex vacations are created equal.

What’s more, discretion is their top priority so you can be assured that your credit card will be charged anonymously and that your privacy will be well guarded.

Unlike clubs and brothels which are much shadier in their dealings, these escort resorts generally operate completely within the law and are therefore, the safest and most enjoyable experience for most international travelers seeking to let their hair down and relax on the ultimate sex vacation.

What’s more, because you’re not drunkenly stumbling from one seedy bar to another, your time can be spent having other experiences like golf, taking in the local culture or sightseeing.

Are Sex Vacations Safe?

Girl on vacation at sex resort

That depends. A sex vacation can be one of the most memorable experiences of your life. Away from home and the tiresome dating scene you’re used to, you have the opportunity to become your true sexual self – vibrant and adventurous.

However, the only thing you want to bring home with you is memories and all you want to lose is your inhibitions. It’s best to be cautious as much as you can.

Does it even bear mentioning that you need to wear protection? STDs don’t take holidays and they can be absolutely rampant in the low end sex tourism market for obvious reasons. Practice common sense when you choose a provider and ensure that you are securely wrapped up before any amusements begin.

The same can be said for your wallet as well – wrap it up, gents. Many of the providers working in areas in which a sex vacation is common are accomplished in the fine art of the con. They have been known to convince hapless tourists to marry, buy property, support families and develop unfortunate commitments that follow them back overseas and into their ‘real’ lives.

In addition, there is always the risk of having your passport, money and other crucial documents taken from you forcibly should things turn ugly.

This is particularly true if you choose to shy away from established escort resorts and find yourself wandering the streets looking for entertainment and a cheap sex vacation experience. You tend to get what you pay for in this area and it pays to find a well established higher end option where the girls on not "working girls" but are enjoying some fun for themselves.

Keep your wits about you and trust your instincts. It’s better to be safe than well…in a shallow grave somewhere.

Men, women, couples, young and old…tourists are starting to develop an appetite for erotic vacations. Certainly there is a big enough market for it and more than enough providers willing to spend a little time in exchange for a little cash.

If you are in the market for the kind of death bed memory that will make you proud, there is plenty of opportunity for you worldwide. All you need to do is find the venue that suits your tastes and experience for yourself why a sex vacation has become not only accepted, but celebrated by many.


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About Kristine L.

I’m into travel, video games and have been called a nerd on more than one occasion. My passionate writer self loves dreaming of far off places waiting to be discovered. Someday I hope to travel to every country on earth. In the meantime, I’m happy at a local pub writing my next article ;)