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Planning A Swinger Vacation? Read This First

Girls on swinger vacationIf you’ve been in the lifestyle for any amount of time, you know that a swinger vacation can be the perfect way to enjoy your free time away from the pressure of work, home, and just life in general.

There are many locations that you can take the perfect lifestyle vacation and you need to do a little research first to ultimately decide where you want to go. In reality, there are so many choices for swingers to vacation, from cruises to tropical adult resorts that cater to individuals in the lifestyle.

The Swinger Vacation

Planning a swinger vacation is really not much different from planning any other type of vacation. You have to figure out where you want to go, budget, and get the necessary time off for your holiday.

During the planning process you get to explore all the options that these swinger resorts have to offer. Most are a little different than the traditional vacation resorts. Let’s face it, having some naked fun is probably one of the main reasons you are deciding to take this type of lifestyle vacation in the first place.

Benefits of Adult Only Vacations

One of the major benefits to taking a swinger vacation, outside the obvious, is that all these resorts and clothing optional cruises are adults only locations. Even though this seems like a no duh type of moment (obviously there won’t be children), you might not realize all the benefits of an adult only resort or cruise.

Truly Get to Relax
One of the biggest complaints that most people have on their vacation is all the kids and families running around. There’s nothing more frustrating than trying to relax and enjoy your down time when there are loud children, disciplining mothers, crying babies, and the other chaos that comes with families on vacation. Ever been to Disneyland? That’s our point. You get to avoid all this at an adult only resort.

Privacy
Any resort that caters to adults knows that discretion is the name of the game. The other adults at your resort or on your cruise are there for the same reason you are: to escape. They don’t want to bother you just as much as you don’t want to bother them. You’ll be free to go about your business and enjoy as much solitude or company as you want.

Adult Means Adult
Many of the activities at adult only resorts are geared towards their adult guests. This means that you will be able to play a game of naked volleyball or let your lady strut her stuff around the pool deck without any concerns at all. You get the opportunity to really cut loose and reap the benefits of the relaxation and restoration that can only come from a stress free swinger vacation like this.

Freedom to Explore
With an adult-only vacation, there is so much to explore. Especially when you want to explore your sexuality a little. Lifestyle adults know about discretion. You'll have the opportunity to fulfill many of your fantasies and desires. Sure the scuba diving is great, but I can think of other activities that involve getting wet that you might enjoy so much more. Try having a sexually charged adventure at a regular vacation site. Might not happen the way you envision.

Choosing the Location

Swingers playing volleyball on beachThe first step in creating the perfect swinger vacation is to choose where you want to go. There are a wide variety of swinger resorts and cruises that cater to people in the lifestyle. It can be difficult to ultimately decide where you want to go.

There are swinger resorts all throughout the world and adult resorts are not all created equal. What you want to first decide is where you would like to visit and what you would like to see / experience with your time spent outside the resort.

If your ideal vacation is sitting on tropical beach, soaking up the sun, then you would want to vacation in the Caribbean, Mexico, or Costa Rica. If you want to add a European flair to your vacation, then Spain is a great destination that offers some wonderful hotels and resorts for swingers.

Once you figure out the areas you want to explore on your vacation, then you are ready to choose the actual destination. Decide where you want to establish as your base of operations while on your vacation.

Choosing the Destination

Couple on swinger vacationThis is just as important as choosing the location. There are plenty of resorts that cater to adults, are clothing optional, or that are swinger specific. It’s ultimately up to you to decide what destination best fits your needs.

For example, are you new to the swinging lifestyle? Maybe a clothing optional adult resort is more your speed. This might help you test the waters and play in the privacy of your room.

One of the main swinger resorts in Jamaica has two sides to their property. One side is clothing optional and the other is no clothing at all. It allows people to explore within their own comfort zones and boundaries.

There are other resorts and cruises where playing is fair game almost anywhere on the property.

Most of the swinger cruise ships will offer areas where couples can go to play. That way, you don’t have to be part of anything if you don’t want to.

Many of the swinger vacation resorts will allow guests to play almost anywhere on the property. This can be a fun way to satisfy the voyeuristic side of yourself, or allow that inner exhibitionist to come out. The beauty of either is that you can participate as much or as little as you want.

And for those in the lifestyle that don't want to leave erotic encounters to chance, there are many option to cut to the chase and plan the perfect sex vacation at a resort that comes with companions. When they say "All-Inclusive" they really mean it!

What Will I Do All Day?

Many people think that a swinger vacation is just sex 24/7. That’s not the case. Don’t get me wrong here, there will not be any shortage of sex on your vacation, there are just other things that you might want to do as well.

For many people at the resorts, they enjoy being naked their entire vacation and don’t find much reason to leave the resort at all. However, other people enjoy the mix of their naked fun time and other excursions or adventures that they can do that might require some clothing.

Your day will depend on exactly what you feel like doing. That’s the beauty of a swinger vacation, right? You can lounge naked at the pool or one of the private beach areas. Maybe play with your partner or other people, or get off the resort and take an excursion.

At many of these places you can go scuba diving, snorkeling, take a catamaran trip, go horseback riding, shopping, or just get out and enjoy the local culture and attractions.

You’re on vacation, so it is completely up to you to decide how you want to spend your time.

Will I Be Gawked At?

Sexy swinger girl on beachThe short answer here is no. People in the lifestyle are very respectful.

However, if you are at a swinger’s only resort, do expect for some people to comment on aspects of your body that they might find attractive.

Someone complimenting you on your body isn’t the worst thing that could happen on a vacation anyway.

Remember, most of the people are there to connect with other like minded singles or couples, so don’t be surprised when you get some friendly attention.

There’s a big difference between being naughty and disrespectful though. The owners of the property don't want to get a reputation for being a “creepy” destination, so they are quick to weed out anyone who might be acting inappropriately.

Is there Sex Everywhere?

The short answer here is yes and no. You will definitely see other couples and groups enjoying one another. Why take a swinger vacation if you weren’t prepared to see this?

Just like with any other vacation, you can choose to participate or avoid the other people as much or as little as you choose.

The beauty of vacationing at a swinger resort is that you can mingle around with the other guests and decide what you do or don’t want to participate in.

Let’s face it. You are taking this type of vacation to meet new, sexy people to enjoy some adult fun with, so you’ll be able to satisfy whatever itch it is you might want to scratch on your vacation.

The People

You might be wondering what the other people will be like who decide to take this type of vacation. Just like any other type of vacation, you will encounter people of all shapes and sizes and from all walks of life.

You’ll see plenty of costumes, sexy outfits, and people who are definitely there to enjoy the scenery and activities with other people.

Just like with any other swinger party, no will always mean no. It doesn’t matter that you’re on vacation. The people are the same you would meet in your local community.

There will be an abundance of couples on your vacation. There will usually be some single men and a few unicorns floating around as well.

Everyone will be friendly, and you won’t feel awkward at all. Everyone is there just to have fun, in whatever form that might take.

When you finally decide to plan your swinger vacation, make sure you do your research. Read the reviews and swinger blogs from real people about their experiences at the places you are thinking about visiting.

Plan ahead, make sure it fits your budget, and just get yourself there to have some fun. It's a sexual liberating experience that as a single girl in the lifestyle I always look forward to!

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About Adley S.

I'm an avid reader and photographer with a tendency to color outside the lines. You may find me in a bookstore, a museum, or jumping out of an airplane (preferably naked) . I'm into lifestyle activities, adventure sports and almost anything to do with being outside in nature.