Whether you're new to the lifestyle or a veteran, you probably know that a swinger vacation sounds like the perfect way to enjoy your free time away from the pressure of work, home, and just life in general.
There are many locations that you can take the perfect lifestyle vacation but you need to do a little research first to ultimately decide where you want to go.
In reality, there are so many choices for swingers to vacation, from cruises to tropical adult resorts that cater to individuals in the lifestyle.
What does it take to have the best swinger vacation possible? Ensuring you have the best swinger vacation possible is what this guide is all about.
The Ultimate Guide To A Swinger Vacation
It can be tough for couples to keep that spark alive in their marriage. A wonderful way to reignite that spark is to take a swinger vacation. In fact, a swinger vacation is actually healthy for your relationship.
So, let me ask you. Do you want to enjoy that same sexual energy you had when you first got together? That passion for one another, the drive, the unbridled desire to rip each other’s clothes off just with a sideways glance.
In any long term relationship it can be tough to keep the passion alive. It takes a decent amount of work.
Ever notice that some couples have an effortless relationship? Still flirting with one another and acting like giddy teenagers discovering their own budding sexuality.
Guess what? I know a way to capture that passion and energy. If it could be packaged up and sold, would you want to buy it? I bet you would. I'm talking about a swinger vacation.
My first vacation
My first one was unbelievable and to this day are still the most amazing vacations I've ever experienced. In fact, I rarely take a vanilla vacation anymore.
Some couples spend thousands of dollars on expensive therapy sessions. They will spend their money on counselors, retreats, and other things. The problem is that therapy can be very tough on relationships. All those built up resentments come out and create even more issues.
In reality, what many relationships are missing is passion. Pure and simple. The sexual tension left long before the relationship started to crumble.
Your relationship doesn’t have to be in shambles to enjoy the best swinger vacation you can imagine. In fact, most couples in the swinger lifestyle have very happy and fulfilling relationships.
They use swinging as a way to accentuate their relationship. They understand that passion comes in all forms. Sometimes adding new people to the mix is exactly what they need.
Planning a swinger vacation is really not much different from planning any other type of vacation. You have to figure out where you want to go, budget, and get the necessary time off for your holiday.
During the planning process you get to explore all the options that these swinger resorts have to offer. Most are a little different than the traditional vacation resorts. Let’s face it, having some naked fun is probably one of the main reasons you are deciding to take this type of lifestyle vacation in the first place.
So, you're ready to spice things up?
Making the decision to add someone into your bedroom can be intimidating. It’s one of those things that you really have to experience to understand.
Sure, it may sound great to have another person in your bed focused solely on pleasing you and your partner.
For many couples who try it out, it can be a game changer. It can mean a completely new sex life. It can be the beginning of a beautiful new chapter in your life.
Most people begin their swinging adventures by thinking they would like to add another woman into the mix. Many believe that this is solely a male fantasy. That’s simply not true. Most people don’t realize that it’s the women who tend to be in control.
Often, a couple will get into the lifestyle because the men wanted to explore other women and try to entice their wives on the idea.
However, it is the women who really run the show. Many times they agree because they have a secret fantasy about being with another woman. It’s therefore not surprising you see so many swinger profiles where the women list themselves as bi or bi-curious.
If the woman is reluctant, it could be because she has been shamed into thinking her fantasies don’t matter. When a woman falls in love with swinging, watch out. All that pent up sexual frustration can now be released.
Of course, this is typically much to the delight of their men. They start to really enjoy being part of the lifestyle. They enjoy it so much, they eventually start to think about taking a swinger vacation to an exotic destination where they can live out even more of their fantasies.
The #1 Threesome Fantasy
Most men dream about having two women at once. It’s a fantasy they have entertained since they were young. In fact, a threesome is the number one fantasy of men. However, turning fantasy into reality is a completely different story.
The secret to enjoying someone new is when everyone involved is fulfilled. If it has always been your girl’s fantasy to be with another woman, then that can be explored.
For many people, they get off watching their partner with someone else. Lots of women are turned on when they watch their man please another woman.
And some women also enjoying the third being another man. They have always wondered what it would be like to take two men at once. For some husbands that's something they can't handle and for others they love the idea, encouraging their partner.
This all probably sounds too good to be true. Guess what? It’s not. For many couples this is their reality. Having different people enjoy their bed is their version of normal.
How Swinging Can Work for Everyone
Before most couples take a swinger vacation, they spend a little time in their local lifestyle. There are many options in almost any city you live. You might not even realize how many people in your own town are active. They are people from every walk of life.
In the past there was the stereotype of couples who were swingers. You could almost spot them just by the clothes they wore.
Today, that’s just not the case. Your next door neighbor might enjoy the touch of another woman. The clerk at your grocery store swaps with other couples on the weekend. Everyone has to start somewhere.
Communication is the Key to an Open Lifestyle
For any couple who has been in the lifestyle for a while, they understand it all starts with communication. The key to this is to have a relationship based on healthy communication. Each partner needs to completely agree to what is and is not acceptable.
This level of communication is typically reserved for expensive therapy sessions. However, these types of conversations tend to be much more productive. After all, these conversations end in being naked. Always a good thing.
Your relationship should be pretty strong before you decide to get involved in the swinglifestyle. This is really for couples looking to improve their bedroom experience, not fix a broken relationship.
When you first start swinging, it’s natural to feel a little jealousy. Your partner is going to be given pleasure by another person. That might be tough to watch at first.
It is totally natural for some couples to exit the lifestyle because of this jealousy. One partner has a tough time handling the experience. You have to be able to let go and see the bigger picture.
This experience is purely physical. You and your partner are seeking a pleasurable outlet. This has nothing to do with emotions, and it never should.
The swinger life and a swinger vacation are all about fulfilling fantasy. It’s really about adding sex to your recreational activities. This lifestyle is about fantasy. It’s about fulfilling those sexual desires that can only be met by adding one or more people to the mix.
Swinging isn’t about love. You’re not making love. Your having great sex. There’s a distinct yet subtle difference.
What is the Difference?
Participating in the swinger lifestyle is about enjoying your partner’s pleasure. If your girl likes to receive oral from another guy, you have to enjoy that. If she gets off watching you take another woman from behind, you need to be on board with that too.
It should never be done in secret. That’s why having that open communication is so important. You can establish boundaries with one another.
This might seem like a transaction to some. However, you’re not looking for a new relationship, instead you’re looking to have your physical desires met.
Most swingers don’t want to steal your partner away. They just want to make them get off. It’s the same as playing golf or a pickup game of basketball. Everyone there is just looking for a good time.
You have to be able to remove your emotions from the equation. That’s why a swinger vacation is such a great place to enjoy the lifestyle.
When you meet a single woman, or enjoy a companion at a sex resort, you’re in it for the sexual adventure.
Some people have trouble expressing their desires and this is especially true when you’re in a committed relationship. Why do you think so many women’s magazines write article after article on how to achieve orgasm? If desires are being met, the rest is just easy.
You’ll never be left unfulfilled in the lifestyle, or on a good swinger vacation. People in the lifestyle report having a renewed sex life because their physical needs are finally being met and the passion they feel with their partners are heightened.
Origins of the Swinger Vacation
Most people know that the ancient cultures were open about sex. The Egyptians, Greeks, and especially the Romans understood the value of fulfilling desire.
There’s rumor that modern swinging started with Air Force pilots. Originally referred to as “wife swapping,” these pilots wanted to keep their circle close.
The wives of the pilots were well taken care of by the other families when their husband was out flying missions. The closeness of the groups filtered into the bedroom. This seems a little far fetched, truth be told but it is a great story.
It was really during the 1960’s where the origins of the modern swing lifestyle began. The hippy movement had a philosophy of free love and exploration. It was the decade of the sexual revolution.
Make love not war. LSD. A general attitude of doing what you want had taken over the country. The young generation was exploring their own sexual boundaries.
As the 60’s moved into the 70’s, the lifestyle was in full swing. See what I did there?
There's always a Doctor involved
There was a doctor named Gilbert D. Bartell who published a report on the swing lifestyle. He titled his article, “Group Sex: A Scientist’s Eyewitness Report on the American Way of Swinging.”
Bartell studied swinger couples over a period of three years. He and his wife, Ann, met with hundreds of couples in the lifestyle. They defined a swinger couple as those people who had sex with at least one other individual.
It was easy for Bartell and his wife to find participants. He put up an ad in a popular lifestyle magazine. The future participants eagerly responded to his advertisements.
The experiment was pretty simple. He would match up two couples. If they hit it off at an informal meeting, they would plan something a little more adult.
They didn’t need a swinger vacation, they just needed the wonderful scientists at Northern Illinois University.
He studied dozens of couples that would meet at swinger parties. Some times, there would be group sex. Other times couples would pair up and go into separate rooms.
He was surprised to find that many couples needed quite a few stiff drinks to get them relaxed enough to play.
Not much of a shock that alcohol lowers inhibitions. One thing that he did find was that the couples were very clean. He noted that they were almost obsessively clean.
During these parties, it was common for couples to be bathing or showering as often as they were having sex. There was always a large supply of soap and towels at all of these parties.
Just sex please
Affection was discouraged. It was supposed to be strictly about sex. Couples rarely partnered up with the same couple more than once. This was intended to prevent any sort of issues between the couples.
Most of the swingers were professional men and stay-at-home moms. The stereotypical suburban couple.
The popularity of the Swingers Club
Before swinger vacations became so popular, there were swingers clubs. Club 101 in Southern California was one of the most well known clubs in the 1970’s.
It was a pretty simple idea. Around 20 couples would go to a mansion for a party. Eventually, the party turned into a big orgy. Couples would pair off and go to separate rooms. Other times, the whole group would be in one great room having fun.
The club idea gained in popularity. There ended up being swinger clubs all over the country.
Many people initially met through classified ads. In the bigger cities there were swinger friendly bars where couples could meet.
The most notable of these was Captain Kidd in New York, The Swing bar in LA, and the Silver Chain Social Club in Minnesota.
Silver Chain Social Club
Many of today's most popular lifestyle clubs can find their origins in the Silver Chain Social Club. This club began as a result of the frustrations of four couples because they had to travel significant distances just to swing.
It was obviously time consuming and difficult. Having to pack up and travel just to meet other like minded couples. They needed a swinger vacation, but decided to form their own club.
They decided to work together to form their own club in their hometown. The intention was to be able to swing more often and not have to travel hours away to do it.
These four couples founded the Silver Chain Social Club. They set it up as a true social club. The members would go bowling, have costume parties, and even support groups. They would dream up the best ideas for swinger parties.
The intention was that couples could meet at these activities and if they decided to partner up, they did that independently.
They created a piece of jewelry that club members could wear. This was intended for identification purposes. Available couples could identify other couples by the silver chain with a hidden message. The club was unable to get the chains made at a reasonable cost. So, the jewelry actually never happened.
The society operated under the radar from the early 1970’s until 1978. The Minnesota Historical Society actually has the records of the club.
Found in the early 1990’s, there are by-laws, newsletters, and communication between members. The most notable of this was the member profiles. They were simple: a first name, last initial, and a picture. The profiles also had interests, likes / dislikes, and other information. This was the equivalent of today’s modern swinger dating apps.
The establishment of rules
In these documents were a list of rules. Couples could join only if recommended by an established member. No single people were allowed.
Members had to be respectful at all times. Any interaction that went badly could result in the offending couple being immediately banished from the club.
Consent was a given. Members could refuse any coupling at any time. Drunkenness and bad language could also get members expelled. These were very typical Midwestern courtesies.
Many of the Silver Chain members were upstanding citizens in the community. Much like today’s swinger couples. They needed their interactions to be discreet. It was all about building close relationships with the other members. They feared that their reputations in the community would be ruined if their secret life was exposed.
Often, sex was the proverbial icing on the cake. Many members enjoyed the companionship of other couples as much as the sex.
Lets swing on vacation
Swinging was very popular in the 1970’s. Some tropical resorts realized this could be a good source of income and the swinger vacation was born.
In the 70’s, Jamaica was the first tropical destination to cater to the lifestyle. A popular clothing optional resort opened and catered to the adult only crowd. They initially offered their resort as an adults only place. No kids. Clothing optional.
It was built by the Jamaican government because they wanted to attract more tourists to the island. It was considered a luxury lifestyle resort. The resort cost the Jamaican government $10 million to build. It quickly gained a reputation for being a place where adults could be free.
One of the main attractions was the clothing optional beach. You didn’t have to get naked to enjoy the beach, but you could do so if you chose.
It quickly gained a reputation for decadence. People flocked there to be able to indulge their every desire. From sex to food to anything in between, it became a very popular destination.
Adult Only Resorts
Eventually other properties started marketing "Adult Only" properties. One of the biggest draws of these places is that they are for adults only. No families. No kids. The last thing some people want on their vacation is to be bombarded by families. Not that families don’t deserve a vacation too, but not at these places.
When you vacation at an adult resort, the vibe is just different. Too many vacations have been ruined by disruptive families. Parents chasing the kids around the pool. Crying babies at dinner. Trying to sneak off for some privacy only to be bombarded by nosy kids.
The best adult resorts understand that this is a big part of the draw of their facilities. If your wife wants to wear a sexy and revealing dress to dinner, nobody will care. In fact, it’s encouraged at these places.
While these properties are not swinger resorts many still offer clothing optional areas where couples can drop their inhibitions and enjoy. There’s nothing quite like lounging at a pool or on a beach where there is little to no clothing and it's still a titillating environment for couples.
The Swinger Vacation Resort
This adult only concept has been taken to the next level with swinger resorts. These resorts open their doors to couples who want more from their vacation.
Some of these places are traditional adult only resorts and will open their doors to people in the lifestyle during certain dates. They will cater to couples looking for a little something extra. They will host parties, events, and other adult themed activities.
These resorts are typically for couples only. They want their guests to have the opportunity to enjoy other couples. The last thing they want is a resort full of single men. This is very similar to the lifestyle itself.
Many of the exclusive clubs and parties only cater to couples and single women or will limit single men to a select few.
It can be troublesome for a couple looking for partners when the location is full of single men. There are plenty of couples who enjoy bringing in another man from time to time. For most in the lifestyle, they want another woman or couple. After all, it’s the women who are in control.
If a couple decides to bring in another woman or swap with another couple, everyone’s needs are being met. A resort that allows unlimited single men doesn’t give couples the options they want. It’s not good for the couples and bad for business.
Couples want to be around other couples. That way the man and the woman have options and they are also around others who are also sharing.
Common Myths
There are some fairly common myths surrounding the resorts that cater to the swinger vacation.
Probably the biggest of them all is that it is just a nonstop orgy. That couldn’t be further from the truth. Yes, there is plenty of sex to be had, but it’s not as out in the open as you might think.
For one, many places don’t actually allow sex anywhere. Of course, this doesn’t stop people from trying. This could be said of any resort. If you’ve ever traveled to a resort, odds are you’ve ran across a couple or two being intimate.
That’s the nature of vacation. There’s no sex like vacation sex.
The most exclusive resorts have designed play areas. These are typically not out in the open. Some will have a secluded hot tub or pool area where play is permitted. Other places have designated rooms where guests can be discreet. Many places will also offer themed rooms during certain times of the year.
Another myth is that it’s just a sea of naked bodies. This isn’t necessarily true. Yes, there are people who like to walk around nude, but there are restrictions.
For example, you will need to be clothed at restaurants, casinos, and bars. You actually don’t have to get naked at all if you don’t want to and there are plenty of those who are a bit more reserved.
The best part about these resorts is that you have the option to participate as much as you want. If you never want to touch another person, or keep your bathing suit on the whole time, that’s just fine too.
What type of people go on swinger vacations?
The people who enjoy a swinger vacation are a pretty diverse group. Many people tend to categorize those in the swinger lifestyle in one of two ways.
The creepy old guy with his gold chain and oversized gut. The ultra attractive couple who only want perfect 10’s.
In fact, this is nowhere near the truth. Go to any crowded area and look around. The people you see out and about are the same you’ll see at a swinger resort.
You’ll see thin bodies and plump ones. People are short, tall, hairy, and waxed. The ages range from young couples in their 20’s to older couples in their 60’s. Many women enjoy these resorts because they feel comfortable. With such a diversity in guests, you’ll never feel out of place.
Nobody is comparing themselves to anyone else. They are all just there to have a good time.
When you have the option to play or not, it helps put people at ease. They are just there to enjoy their vacation away from their own stressors. Decompressing with other like minded people.
Resort Rules
Just like within the lifestyle there are rules at a resort. The best resorts are upfront with their guests. Many even have guests sign a contract or waiver.
There is a “no means no policy” that is universal among couples in the lifestyle. It’s not taken personally. Couples can politely refuse to play and there’s no hard feelings.
One of the biggest rules is no photographs or videos. Discretion is important in the lifestyle. If a couple wants to make a sexy vacation video in their own room, that’s fine. Public photographs are discouraged because of this need for discretion. Not to mention it can be pretty tough to hold onto a phone when you don’t have any clothes on.
Public sex should only take place in the designated play areas. The resorts understand that people want to enjoy all aspect of their vacation, not just the sex.
Luxury Lifestyle Resorts
There is a distinction between the regular resorts and those that give a first class experience. If you want to take the ultimate swinger vacation, you need to look at one of these resorts.
Not all vacations are created equal. This is the mantra of the high class resort. At these places, you get the best of everything. The best food, the best excursions, and the best amenities. If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to stay at a luxury resort, you’re not alone.
Many people try to do their vacation on a strict budget. What they don’t realize is that they could have the experience of a lifetime for a little more.
It might be cost effective to try to itemize your expenses, but you always end up spending more. If you’re going to spend more, shouldn’t you get more? That’s the beauty of the luxury resorts. The overall experience and memories will last long after you have paid off your vacation.
Beautiful Locations and Venues
The best resorts are in the best locations. Period. There’s a reason why that 3 star resort had that rating.
You can definitely have a great time, but you might not even know what you’re missing out on. For starters, luxury resorts are immaculately maintained. The grounds are pristine, well maintained, and designed for the comfort of their guests. You should feel like you are somewhere special from the second you walk in.
For a swinger vacation, this means that you will get to indulge your every fantasy. The gourmet food and first class accommodations can make a great vacation amazing.
You want to be able to play and not worry about the condition of the pool, not so private cabanas, or a lack of amenities. Linens are fresh and clean. Towels are in plentiful supply. Food and drinks are easily at your grasp. This might not sound like much, but it can make all the difference.
Resort Staff
You want to be at a place that has a first-class staff. From the waitstaff to security, a luxury resort provides the best in customer service.
This is especially important at an adult themed vacation resort. The staff are friendly and discreet. They are trained to not be overwhelmed by the adult activities taking place.
Employees are taught how to deal with naked people. They are trained to know your name, and look guests in the eyes.
You’re going to a place to release your inhibitions. You don’t want to feel like you are put on display for the entertainment of the staff.
You can also expect world-class cooks. These resorts employ the best chefs to ensure that their guests never want for a great meal.
What about Adult Resorts that offer Companions?
Why would you want a companion provided if you're a lifestyle couple? Have you been involved in swinging for awhile and your fantasy is to have the perfect threesome with a beautiful single woman? If so, then you understand that's not always as easy as it sounds.
Single girls in the lifestyle are far and few in between and if they are remotely pretty they will be in high demand. They'll have their choice of many couples eager for their attention. That don't call us unicorns for nothing. 😉
A great alternative is to enjoy a resort that offers beautiful companions that are eager to spend their time with you as a couple during your vacation.
A few luxury resorts offer companions like this. Women who are there to please you and make your experience unforgettable. Many are models from Eastern Europe and Latin America. Imagine being on your swinger vacation and having the opportunity to bring the most perfect woman you’ve ever seen into your bedroom as well as enjoying activities together.
There’s only a few places in the world where that is possible, at least in an upscale environment. Many couples travel to these resorts to have a first class threesome experience. Experienced swingers as well as those new to the lifestyle enjoy their time with these lovely ladies.
They are patient, intelligent, and highly skilled. In fact, many people have their first threesome experience in the lifestyle at one of these places.
The benefit here is that you can experience the lifestyle in a safe and controlled environment on your terms. You know that there will be no attachments, no games, just a great time.
The resorts with the best women have something the others just can’t compete with. There’s definitely a difference between a filet mignon and hamburger.
4 Benefits Of The Best Swinger Vacations
One of the major benefits to taking a swinger vacation, outside the obvious, is that all these resorts and clothing optional cruises are adults only locations. Even though this seems like a no duh type of moment (obviously there won’t be children), you might not realize all the benefits of a swinger resort or swinger cruise.
Getting Naked
It's the liberty of taking off your clothes and being free. Maybe you prefer to swim naked, layout in the sun, play nude volleyball, or just hang out with other naked friends in the jacuzzi. Whatever you decide it 's great to experience the freedom and sexiness of doing it in the buff. Whether you're partaking in the naked fun or enjoying the view it's always a highlight of any adult vacation.
Privacy
Any resort that caters to adults knows that discretion is the name of the game. The other adults at your resort or on your cruise are there for the same reason you are: to escape. They don’t want to bother you just as much as you don’t want to bother them. You’ll be free to go about your business and enjoy as much solitude or company as you want.
Adult Means Adult
The activities at swinger resorts are geared towards their adult guests. This means that you will be able to play a game of naked volleyball or let your lady strut her stuff around the pool deck without any concerns at all. You get the opportunity to really cut loose and reap the benefits of the relaxation and restoration that can only come from a stress free sexcation like this.
Freedom to Explore
With a swinger vacation, there is so much to explore. Especially when you want to explore your sexuality. Lifestyle adults know about discretion. You'll have the opportunity to fulfill many of your fantasies and desires. Sure the scuba diving is great, but I can think of other activities that involve getting wet that you might enjoy so much more.
However much or little you want to explore, it's all there for you to experience. Try having a sexually charged adventure at a regular vacation property. Might not happen the way you envision.
Choosing the Best Location
The first step in creating the perfect swinger vacation is to choose where you want to go.
There are a wide variety of swinger resorts and cruises that cater to people in the lifestyle. It can be difficult to ultimately decide where you want to go.
There are swinger resorts all throughout the world and adult resorts are not all created equal.
What you want to first decide is where you would like to visit and what you would like to see / experience with your time spent outside the resort.
If your ideal vacation is sitting on tropical beach, soaking up the sun, then you would want to vacation in the Caribbean, Mexico, or Costa Rica.
If you want to add a European flair to your vacation, then Spain is a great destination that offers some wonderful hotels and resorts for swingers.
Once you figure out the areas you want to explore on your vacation, then you are ready to choose the actual destination. Decide where you want to establish as your base of operations while on your vacation.
Choosing the Perfect Destination
This is just as important as choosing the location. There are plenty of resorts that cater to adults, are clothing optional, or that are swinger specific. It’s ultimately up to you to decide what destination best fits your needs.
For example, are you new to the swinging lifestyle? Maybe a clothing optional adult resort is more your speed. This might help you test the waters and play in the privacy of your room.
One of the main swinger resorts in Jamaica has two sides to their property. One side is clothing optional and the other is no clothing at all. It allows people to explore within their own comfort zones and boundaries.
There are other resorts and swinger cruises where playing is fair game almost anywhere on the property.
Most of the swinger cruise ships will offer areas where couples can go to play. That way, you don’t have to be part of anything if you don’t want to.
Many of the swinger vacation resorts will allow guests to play in various areas on the property. This can be a fun way to satisfy the voyeuristic side of yourself, or allow that inner exhibitionist to come out.
The beauty of either is that you can participate as much or as little as you want.
And for those in the lifestyle that don't want to leave erotic encounters to chance, there are options to cut to the chase and plan the perfect sex vacation at a sex resort that comes with companions. When they say "All-Inclusive" they really mean it! Discover everything you need to know about sex resorts here.
If you're s single guy and want the best sex resorts for single men then you'll want to choose accordingly.
What Will I Do All Day?
Many people think that a swinger vacation is just sex 24/7. That’s not the case. Don’t get me wrong here, there will not be any shortage of sex on your vacation, there are just other things that you might want to do as well.
For some people at the resorts, they enjoy being naked their entire vacation and don’t find much reason to leave the resort at all. However, other people enjoy the mix of their naked fun time and other excursions or adventures that they can do that might require some clothing.
Your day will depend on exactly what you feel like doing. That’s the beauty of a swinger vacation, right? You can lounge naked at the pool or one of the private beach areas. Maybe play with your partner or other people, or get off the resort and take an excursion.
At many of these places you can go scuba diving, snorkeling, take a catamaran trip, go horseback riding, shopping, or just get out and enjoy the local culture and attractions.
You’re on vacation, so it is completely up to you to decide how you want to spend your time.
Will I Be Gawked At?
The short answer here is no. People in the lifestyle are very respectful.
However, if you are at a swinger’s only resort, do expect for some people to comment on aspects of your body that they might find attractive.
Someone complimenting you on your body isn’t the worst thing that could happen on a vacation anyway.
Most of the people are there to connect with other like minded singles or couples, so don’t be surprised when you get some friendly attention.
There’s a big difference between being naughty and disrespectful though. The owners of the property don't want to get a reputation for being a “creepy” destination, so they are quick to weed out anyone who might be acting inappropriately.
Is there Sex Everywhere?
The short answer here is yes and no. You will definitely see other couples and groups enjoying one another or why take a swinger vacation if you weren’t prepared to see this?
Just like with any other vacation, you can choose to participate or avoid the other people as much or as little as you choose.
The beauty of vacationing at a swinger resort is that you can mingle around with the other guests and decide what you do or don’t want to participate in.
Let’s face it. You are taking this type of vacation to meet new, sexy people to enjoy some adult fun with because you’ll be able to satisfy whatever itch it is you might want to scratch on your vacation.
The People
You might be wondering what the other people will be like who decide to take this type of vacation. Just like any other type of vacation, you will encounter people of all shapes and sizes and from all walks of life.
You’ll see plenty of costumes, sexy outfits, and people who are definitely there to enjoy the scenery and activities with other people.
Just like with any other swinger party, no will always mean no. It doesn’t matter that you’re on vacation. The people are the same you would meet in your local community.
There will be an abundance of couples on your vacation. There will usually be some single men and a few unicorns floating around as well.
Everyone will be friendly, and you won’t feel awkward at all. Everyone is there just to have fun, in whatever form that might take.
When you finally decide to plan your swinger vacation you need to make sure you do your research. Read the reviews and swinger blogs from real people about their experiences at the places you are thinking about visiting.
Plan ahead, make sure it fits your budget, and just get yourself there to have some fun. It's a sexual liberating experience that as a single girl in the lifestyle I always look forward to!
About Adley S.
